everything you didn't know you were looking for...

 top: Trinite, Tia Cami, fitmesh for standard sizes 

as well as fits for mesh bodies Slink, Belleza, and Maitreya
and texture changing HUD
 (worn on Maitreya)

bed: Earthworx, Blue Rustic Memories Bed

mesh bed with various menus, including cuddles, sits
sex, play, romance and BDSM

as well as a texture change HUD

hair: Lamb, Foxygen, blondes